Self-Hatred (a small story)

Hi...I'm Boyce 💛 Welcome back to my blog...Today,I'm going to share with you about what is self-hatred and a little story of a self-hatred:)

Self-Hatred

-an extreme dislike or hatred of oneself,or being angry at or even prejudiced against oneself.

   A boy, 10 years old, his classmate always keep away form him and abuse him in the classroom...His parent are busy in work and also easy to get angry at him."Why you can't do better" a sound always in his mind. So, sometime he will think, “ All misfortune are deserved for him”.If any lucky things happened on him, he will started rejecting and think the lucky thing will not happen on him. However,in his heart, he also always ask for kindness and warmness from other. So,when people try to be kind to him and make friend with him,he will started reject and just wanna stay in his room. And always thinks something bad in his mind. Also, when people praise on him, he also will thinking why the people want to praise on him. After long time, he started gonna become introvert and always feeling no confident.

  However, one day, a boy, X try to make friends with him. X always listen to the boy when the boy meet problems. He also not gonna be angry when the boy rejected his kindness and asking why he will be kind to him. He also always bring the boy to take part outdoor activities and let the boy have chance to communicate with other. When X meet problem on Math, due to the boy good in Math, he will ask for helping from X and let the boy found his meaning of life indirectly. So, the boy started accepting the kindness from other and believe the world are beautiful also after many year.

That's the story. I know it's hard for someone come out from self-hatred. But let us try. We can try to make a smile to other and maybe we can try to make the first step to make friend with other if we are prepared and ready."You are the best"

For the other, please don't abuse or bully on someone. Because maybe you are not really want to abuse or bully them,but the words and the action will actually hurt someone and affect someone's life. Also, lending a helping hand to someone that needed help and don't become a bully indirectly.

This is a video from DeluCat 迪鹿 that talk about self-hatred completely
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQs3DAK7VNk&t=52s

So,love yourself and love the world. That's all for today, thanks a lot for supporting.💛